Christmas in San Francisco, December 1891


Pictured is Christmas in San Francisco, featuring an image of my grandmother Agnes Lilly Tillmann (1889-1982) sitting on a rocking horse in front of an authentic Victorian Christmas tree inside the Howard street mansion of her maternal grandfather Claus Mangels. I date the image to December 1891 based on all the kids’ ages. Agnes Lilly would have been about 32 months.

Tillmann Residence, Grove Street

In 1891 my grandmother lived in San Francisco with her family in the Western Addition on Grove street, a block below Alamo Square. However, all the other pictured kids lived across town on Howard street (now S. Van Ness) in the Mission District — an oasis of warm weather and palm trees — and that’s where Claus Mangels lived in a palatial Italianate Victorian, and Claus was either grandfather or uncle-in-law to the bunch. A Christmas with Claus!

Mangels Residence, Howard Street / S Van Ness, near 21st. Long gone!

To be clear, Claus Mangels is my own great great grandfather.

Claus Mangels & Agnes Grosse, San Francisco, 1862

Mangels was a brother-in-law to two Spreckels brothers — Claus Spreckels “the Sugar King” and Peter Spreckels — and family lore holds that the Spreckels and Mangels families were very close, growing up together in Germany (actually, the Kingdom of Hanover, a possession of the British crown and in the 1830s ruled over by one of King George III’s sons). In the late 19th century, Claus Spreckels was one of the richest men in America. And Mangels shared in prosperity with Spreckels families until he died, in brewing, sugar refining, and shipping.

The Gordion Knot of genealogists!
My family tree cheat sheet.

When roughly a dozen Spreckels and Mangels family members arrived in San Francisco in 1856, my Mangels ancestor pitched in to operate his brother-in-law’s newly acquired Albany Brewery near 4th and Howard (actually, 4th & Everett, now within the confines of Moscone Center), later becoming a partner when his brother-in-law cashed out.

My peep also pitched in to help with Spreckels’ sugar refineries, first the Bay Sugar Refinery, then the two iterations of the California Sugar Refinery, including plantations in Hawaii, and sharing in profits along the way.

By 1890 Mangels was a prominent “capitalist” within the German community, and living among a legion of family members in the Mission District. His wealth included San Francisco commercial real estate, including the Golden West Hotel, then in development.

Mangels also acquired a 550 acre ranch in Aptos, a portion of the Aptos Rancho, from his brother-in-law Claus Spreckels, who had purchased the land from the original grantee, keeping 1000’s of acres for himself.

The Tillmann siblings Agnes Lilly and Fred, walking over pastures at Mangels Ranch. Mangels House is the large multi-story Italianate Victorian in upper left.

In San Francisco Spreckels and Mangels always lived near each other. In the 1860s Spreckels and Mangels occupied residences near 16th & Howard/South Van Ness (Spreckels) and 16th & Capp (Mangels). In the late 1870s Mangels moved further out on Howard/South Van Ness to 21st, while Claus Spreckels remained at 16th. But next door to Mangels moved the Spreckels boys J.D and A.B., trading papa’s house to be uncle’s neighbors.

Note — Why “Howard/South Van Ness”? The street was originally named Howard. Sometime mid-20th century Howard street was connected to Van Ness Avenue, and subsequently the stretch of Howard on which lived the Mangels, Spreckels, Zwieg, and Hueter families (and even more relatives!) was renamed South Van Ness.

The palatial Mangels residence — today a school parking lot, torn down within living memory — was located on the west side S. Van Ness slightly south of 21st street.

Millionaires Row today.

Claus Spreckels, Claus Mangels, Santa Claus. (You know my favorite!)


Alice Hueter (left) and Agnes Lilly Tillmann, my grandmother

What makes the scene poignant, this is the age when my grandmother remembered stroking her grandfather’s beard, her only memory of him. Claus Mangels died suddenly in April 1891 at age 55, about eight months before the Christmas image. A Christmas without Claus.

Agnes Lilly Tillmann, early 1890s.
Agnes Lilly Tillman van Eck and the author, 1976. A well-worn patch of lilies.

A sign of resilience is the girl with the doll and basket. She is Alice Hueter — my grandmother’s very close first cousin, whose mother Lizzie, a Mangels daughter, died following childbirth earlier in August 1890, about 16 months before the Christmas image, a baby brother surviving. Alice’s father Ernest L. Hueter was a paint and varnish manufacturer in San Francisco, proprietor of the Gold Rush-era Pioneer Paint & Varnish Company, later to become Dutch Boy paints.

Lizzie Mangels Hueter, bookended by children Alice and Ernest, who will be joined in 1890 by brother Oscar.

The eldest kids Bertha and Walter Zwieg are niece and nephew of Emma Zwieg, second wife of Claus Mangels. Bertha and Walter’s father Hermann Zwieg was proprietor of the South Park Malt House on Brannan street near 5th, one of the largest in The City, started back in the 1850s about the same time Spreckels acquired the Albany Brewery.

Hopfen und Malz – Gott erhalt’s.

Siblings Bertha and Walter Zwieg, niece and nephew of Emma Zwieg Mangels, second wife of Claus Mangels.

And how close were the Zwieg and Mangels families? Hermann Zwieg and his family lived on the same block of Howard street as Mangels, on the opposite side of the street. That’s how close, physically and socially. The Hueters were three blocks away.

Emma Zwieg Mangels, Second Wife, Survivor.

In the 1890s Agnes Lilly adored her grandmother Emma and met Zwieg relatives frequently both in San Francisco and at Mangels Ranch, Aptos. Although my grandmother left no memories of the Mangels residence on Howard street, the following image tells us all we need to know — for little kids the residence was huge and filled with plush furniture and untouchable treasures, and in adjacent rooms ancient adults conversed while children sat quietly and whispered.

Mangels Residence, San Francisco. My best guess, a birthday party for grandma in 1894. At left: siblings Fred and Agnes Tillmann, grandmother Emma Zwieg Mangels, mother Emma Mangels Tillmann.

My own long notes. Happy Holidays!

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Fred Tillman — Growing Up Gay in San Francisco

What does a “homosexual” look like?

Fred Tillman, sister Agnes Lilly, grandmother Emma Zwieg Mangels, at Mangels residence, 2518 Howard (now S. Van Ness), San Francisco, about 1895. Tillmann Family Archives.

“And then there was another family friend — Fred Tillman, our neighbor across the stream at Aptos — but he didn’t ‘look’ like a homosexual; he was big and burly, he lifted weights…. ‘Fred was a pansy — Fred was a queer,’ Daddy interjected.”

Excerpt from Patricia Bosworth’s Anything Your Little Heart Desires (Simon & Schuster, 1997).
Fred Tillman and friends, Mangels Ranch, Aptos, 1930s. Tillmann Family Archives.

The subject of the foregoing dinner conversation on homosexuality was my great uncle Fred Adolphus Tillman (1891-1972), brother of my grandmother Agnes Lilly Tillmann. “Daddy” is Bartley Crum, speaking to his daughter Patricia Bosworth in an excerpt from Bosworth’s memoir Anything Your Little Heart Desires (1997).

Simon & Schuster, 1997

Attorney Bartley Crum was famous for defending Hollywood actors testifying before the House Committee on Un-American Activities (late 1940s/early 1950s). From a book jacket: “Bartley Cavanaugh Crum was an adviser to Harry Truman, a key figure in the founding of Israel, and a defender of blacklisted Hollywood writers and artists.” Crum was likely more famous for representing Rita Hayworth in her divorce.

The Crum’s full dinner conversation about Fred is pictured. One thing Patricia Bosworth got wrong, and oddly so. She writes that Fred was murdered by a sailor he picked up. Wrong! Fred died of old age in Palm Springs in 1972. However, yes, in 1943 Fred picked up a sailor in Santa Cruz and the sailor subsequently knocked Fred out with a wine bottle and drove off in Fred’s car. Fred survived. Given the circumstances, Fred refused to press charges. That was life in the ‘40s.

Aptos (mentioned in the conversation) is the location of Mangels Ranch, acquired by Claus Mangels in the 1880s from his brother-in-law Claus Spreckels.

Mangels Ranch, Aptos, early 1890s. Tillmann Family Archives.

As a Mangels grandchild Fred inherited a portion of Mangels Ranch, including the derelict Aptos Rancho house, which Fred renovated and sold to Patricia’s father Bartley Crum. So Patricia grew up knowing Fred as a neighbor. However, Patricia’s published revelation was no surprise to the family.

Vicente Castro house, Aptos, renovated by Fred Tillman (1920s), later purchased by Bartley Crum. Tillmann Family Archives.

So what’s it like to grow up gay and wealthy in San Francisco’s Gilded Age (1890-1920)? Following is a photo spread. But first a word about me and Uncle Fred.


Me & Uncle Fred

Back in the 1960s a visit from Great Uncle Fred was always a treat because he told me fabulous stories about my grandmother Agnes Lilly and The City’s Gilded Age in the 1900s when the Tillmann siblings were both coming of age. And he gave me stamps and stuffed kangaroo toys from his friend Michael in Australia — that was special.

Me & Uncle Fred, also my grandmother Agnes Lilly, oldest brother Emmett, and grandfather Baron van Eck. Pebble Beach, CA. About 1962. Tillmann Family Archives.

Let’s be clear — I was a youngster and Fred came to visit my mother / his niece in Hillsborough on Fred’s travels either to or from Palm Springs, his home.

I always knew Fred was a lifelong batchelor who hung out with high society folks (as did my grandmother), like members of the Pacific Union or Burlingame Country Clubs. And when Fred left his estate largely to his Australian friend Michael, this was no surprise to me since Fred had no kids and Michael was a longtime friend whom I had met.

My elderly cousin Karl Mertz caught my attention once by saying that Fred was “gay” — it made sense to me, so no surprise, just a term I would not have used because I didn’t know Fred well enough. However, Karl knew Fred and was close to him for half a century, whereas I was just a kid when Fred paid visits. Fred’s gay life in San Francisco was not a topic of conversation while my uncle and I looked at stamps and kangaroo toys.


A Gay Boy in San Francisco‘s Gilded Age

Fred was born in The City (1890), but spent most of the 1890s growing up at the Tillmann’s Fruitvale estate in Oakland. The Oakland residence burned to the ground in 1900, after which the Tillmanns moved back to San Francisco.

Grove Street, San Francisco

Fred’s birthplace, 923 Grove street, near Alamo Square, about 1890. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred & mother Emma Mangels Tillmann, about 1890. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred, sister Agnes Lilly, mother Emma Mangels Tillmann, aunt Agnes Mangels. About 1895. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred & Agnes visit their Mangels grandmother (Emma Zwieg Mangels), 2518 Howard (now S. Van Ness) at 21st, Mission District, San Francisco, about 1895. Tillmann Family Archives.
Backyard fun, San Francisco, mid-1890s. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred & Agnes Lilly, San Francisco, mid-1890s. Formal occasion unknown. Tillmann Family Archives.
Tillmann Family Archives.

Fruitvale Avenue, Oakland

Papa Frederick Tillmann Jr. built a house for his family on a 12-acre estate named “Edendale” along Fruitvale avenue in Oakland near Brookdale. The Tillmanns lived there from about 1892 to 1900.

“Edendale”, Tillmann’s Fruitvale avenue estate, mid-1890s. Tillmann Family Archives.
Tillmann Family Archives.
Tillmann Family Archives.

Mangels Ranch, Aptos

As mentioned earlier, Fred’s grandfather Claus Mangels acquired a 550 acre ranch in Aptos where the family spent summers away from San Francisco. Fred lived there on and off his entire life.

Mangels House, Aptos, early 1890s. Tillmann Family Archives.
Mangels House, mid-1890s. Tillmann Family Archives.
Mangels House, mid-1890s. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred & and his great uncle Claus Spreckels, Mangels House, Aptos, about 1898. Tillmann Family Archives.

Tillmann siblings, Mangels House, about 1910. Tillmann Family Archives.

Mangels Ranch, about 1910. Tillmann Family Archives.
Bridge over Mangels Gulch, 1930s. Tillmann Family Archives.

2000 Washington Street, San Francisco

The Tillmann family acquired 2000 Washington street in 1901 and lived there until the 1920s when Fred Tillman tore down the family home and built the community apartments standing today.

Tillmann residence, 2000 Washington street, San Francisco, about 1911. Tillmann Family Archives.
Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred and his Spreckels cousins, 2000 Washington street, San Francisco, before earthquake, about 1905. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred “Adolphus” Tillman and Adolphus Busch, the “Budweiser Beer King” and Fred’s godfather, Pasadena, 1906 (before earthquake). Tillmann Family Archives.
After the earthquake the Tillmann family took up temporary residence at their Fruitvale property, 1906. Tillmann Family Archives.
Tillmann Siblings, Paris, 1909. Tillmann Family Archives.

Business

Fred’s pioneer grandfather started the family business Tillmann & Bendel, Wholesale Grocers, in 1857. Fred assumed charge of the business from his father in 1915, and he liquidated the firm in the 1930s.

Tillmann & Bendel’s rebuilt post-earthquake headquarters on Market street, San Francisco, 1908. Tillmann Family Archives.
Opening of Tillmann & Bendel’s new headquarters on Market street, 1908. Tillmann Family Archives.
Tillmann & Bendel company anniversary, Palace Hotel, 1912. Tillmann Family Archives.

Fred Tillman, Society Man

Fred was a lifelong Society Man, living in Palm Springs later in life and traveling to The City for formal dinners and special occasions, staying at the Pacific Union Club where he was a member.

Kirmess Festival, San Francisco, 1909. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred escorted his sister Agnes Lilly on her gauntlet of formal dinner/dances at the Crockers, Floods, etc., during her 1909/1910 season debut. Pictured are Society Ladies cornering Fred, not Agnes Lilly. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred with Vera de Sabla, about 1913. Tillmann Family Archives.
Agnes van Eck (the little’est baby and my mother) and her brother John, and Tillmann family, San Mateo, 1918. Tillmann Family Archives.
Fred Tillman and friends, event unknown, 1920s. Tillmann Family Archive